A BEREAVED Redditch mum is backing a fundraising appeal to bring a brand-new centre to Birmingham Women’s Hospital where heartbreaking pregnancy and neonatal loss conversations can take place.
When complete, Woodland House will offer a serene space where parents can receive the best aftercare following their loss. It’ll support families just like Charlotte Cowman’s.
Charlotte was in complete shock when she discovered she was having twins, but it was a happy surprise, and she was excited.
Unfortunately, that happiness turned to despair, after her waters broke unexpectedly at 23 weeks.
She was transferred to Birmingham Women’s Hospital, home to a specialist neonatal intensive care unit for premature babies.
However it was discovered she had an infection, which turned to sepsis.
They couldn’t afford to wait and Charlotte went down to theatre to have a caesarean section. Her babies – Tia Mae and Eli – were born alive, but very poorly.
As the days progressed, Tia Mae seemed to be coping well, despite a couple of setbacks.
However, it was clear just how sick Eli was, and there was a very good chance he wouldn’t make it. Charlotte reflects: “I had started grieving for my baby before he died…but what I didn’t know is that it was the wrong one.”
On their 13th day Tia Mae’s heart rate dropped suddenly. Charlotte watched from outside Tia Mae’s room as the doctors and nurses worked to save her, but after half an hour, the doctor came out and told a hysterical Charlotte there was nothing more they could do. Charlotte went in and held Tia Mae in her arms while she fell asleep forever.
Now Charlotte wants to support other parents and families who have tragically lost a baby and has pledged her support to Birmingham Women’s Hospital Charity, which is on a mission to raise the next £1m for its Woodland House Appeal.
Woodland House will improve the lives of approximately 2,000 women who experience loss at the hospital every year.
To donate visit bwh.org.uk/woodland-house. Alternatively, to donate £5, text WOODLAND to 70970 (standard terms apply).
